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We had written on the invitation,
“a party + baby shower (but mostly a party)”
and that’s what it was. Guests brought gifts for the new parents, but we didn’t open them at the party. And, as promised, there weren’t any “girly” games. The guys kept joking with each other about “it’s not a shower!” and “turning in their man card”, but I think if you ask them they’ll tell you they actually did have fun. A few men came without their wives, even. And stayed! So that’s saying something.
We had a couple of campfires going (hello, what’s more manly than that?) and people roasted marshmallows and made s’mores and ate and laughed and mingled.
With the twinkle lights and candles, it was sort of a magical setting. (Meredith called it “Campfire Chic”.) The yard is my friend Diana’s, and it is pretty much the perfect party yard. It’s super private, with mature trees all along the property line. K hung a screen in the trees and set up his projector to play The Princess Bride during the party. We left the sound low so the movie was really just there for ambience, and it was one of my favorite parts of the evening.
K did the lights himself, and we put a couple of tables under them in case people felt like sitting, but hardly anyone did, preferring instead to congregate around the fires and the food. And speaking of food--
We set up a buffet table on the deck and served s’mores and popcorn. Guests chose from three kinds of marshmallows (chocolate, caramel, and HUGE) and three kinds of chocolate (traditional milk chocolate, peanut butter cups, and cookies and cream). We also had three kinds of popcorn (butter, cheese, and homemade caramel). Some of the photos were taken just as the very first guests were arriving and before we had finished putting out all the food, but you get the idea.
I have to say—and I’m glad I’m typing this next part instead of saying it face to face because I am likely to embarrass myself by getting teary--I have been planning this party in my head for a loooong time. Before Ryan and Meredith were expecting this baby, even. And it was such an honor and privilege to do it for them. Congratulations to our best-est friends, R + M! Over the years we’ve shared a lot of campfires together, even more laughs, and, yes, some tears. We’re so happy to share your joy with you now. And to little Baby Girl Mullen—you’ve made your parents so happy already. We can’t wait to meet you.
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